You shouldn't have to listen to people question your judgment especially when only you know what's right for your life. No one knows you like you know yourself. When you say "no" the answers no. When you say "yes" then let it be a yes. No explaining.
Taking someone down is too too easy. Some people are not worth risking everything you have achieved in your life. Let them crash, burn, and experience a life full of misery all on their own. Sit back and watch because it will happen. What you put out
Sometimes the "I would love to: see that person, do that course, get that body I really want, spend time by the ocean or out in nature, travel to that picture postcard place etc" .... Becomes a distant memory. How sad is that? How sad it is to substi