You shouldn't have to listen to people question your judgment especially when only you know what's right for your life. No one knows you like you know yourself. When you say "no" the answers no. When you say "yes" then let it be a yes. No explaining.
This is your permanent and unshakable identity: You are God's beloved. Matthew 3:17 - "We are the beloved sons and daughters of God just as Jesus is the Beloved Son" (Henri Nouwen) SO LOVE LOVE LOVE THIS!
I love changing women's lives and empowering them to feel good about themselves. I want them to feel confident, beautiful and worthy! Being recognized for hard work is such a fantastic feeling!