Helen Mirren as Ruth, Oliver's mother. She is, at first, guarded toward Eleanor, but once she learns of the young girls past and her feeling for Oliver, Ruth welcomes her with open arms and heart
This is why I love Nicholas Sparks! He has to a great husband in order to write way he does. He totally knows how to make women fall apart with his books.
Cara in her tuxedo look is the perfect inspiration for this how-to on the blog. http://fawkeshunter.com/2013/04/26/weekend-rulebreaker-black-tie-optional/