"Anything I've done up till May 27th 1999 was kind of an illusion, existing without living. My daughter, the birth of my daughter, gave me life." depp (kids will do that to a person.)
This is why I love Nicholas Sparks! He has to a great husband in order to write way he does. He totally knows how to make women fall apart with his books.
Cara in her tuxedo look is the perfect inspiration for this how-to on the blog. http://fawkeshunter.com/2013/04/26/weekend-rulebreaker-black-tie-optional/