This is your permanent and unshakable identity: You are God's beloved. Matthew 3:17 - "We are the beloved sons and daughters of God just as Jesus is the Beloved Son" (Henri Nouwen) SO LOVE LOVE LOVE THIS!
Not a revenge-oriented person, but really. No need to even avenge ourselves. (1) God is our avenger (2) Bitterness is poison (3) Some people just don’t deserve that place in your life. Hate and bitterness take too much energy that could be put.