This is your permanent and unshakable identity: You are God's beloved. Matthew 3:17 - "We are the beloved sons and daughters of God just as Jesus is the Beloved Son" (Henri Nouwen) SO LOVE LOVE LOVE THIS!
I did not happen to learn this a long time ago, only a few months ago. Give it some thought. Turns out to be true. They are not entitled and they will think what they want anyway.