If I had long hair this is what I would like it to look like, but I love my short hair. It takes me 30 minutes every morning to do but I don't mind. I like it!
This is why I love Nicholas Sparks! He has to a great husband in order to write way he does. He totally knows how to make women fall apart with his books.
Cara in her tuxedo look is the perfect inspiration for this how-to on the blog. http://fawkeshunter.com/2013/04/26/weekend-rulebreaker-black-tie-optional/