Oh Yeah? Did all that and more - went without, sacrificed, made do, raised and nurtured his 2 children, kept the home fires burning while he socialised every night at the pub when the money and prestige kicked in. I took the kids to school, outings,.
Don't hold onto anger. Don't blame others for your mistakes. Apologize for your mistake, learn from it. From that point on, it's really out of your hands.