Oh Yeah? Did all that and more - went without, sacrificed, made do, raised and nurtured his 2 children, kept the home fires burning while he socialised every night at the pub when the money and prestige kicked in. I took the kids to school, outings,.
Intelligent people ignore...Yes. Let it go, and move on with your life. Then amazingly one day you realize you haven't thought about that negative situation, or that jealous, vindictive person in like forever, and you think, "WOW!! What was her name.