You're dating a douche bag. Yes, you. Dump him. He's not that into you and you aren't really that into him since you still want your ex... If you think this message is for you, IT IS.....
Intelligent people ignore...Yes. Let it go, and move on with your life. Then amazingly one day you realize you haven't thought about that negative situation, or that jealous, vindictive person in like forever, and you think, "WOW!! What was her name.