I did find that person and wouuld like to thank him for the 26 years we have shared and tell him that the a future full of posibilities and thank you for sharing this crazy life of ours.
Intelligent people ignore...Yes. Let it go, and move on with your life. Then amazingly one day you realize you haven't thought about that negative situation, or that jealous, vindictive person in like forever, and you think, "WOW!! What was her name.