His grace wins, HIS GRACE WINS!!!! No matter how far off you run, no matter how deep you in your own filth you get; there is no place where His grace can't reach you.
Intelligent people ignore...Yes. Let it go, and move on with your life. Then amazingly one day you realize you haven't thought about that negative situation, or that jealous, vindictive person in like forever, and you think, "WOW!! What was her name.