bell hooks *saved by the bell*....which is why everyone thinks feminism = "making choices!" When it's really about working to end the second class status of women, people of color, and other marginalized groups.
The one who falls and gets up is so much stronger than the one who never fell!! I agree...so for all you "perfect" "I would never do THAT" type of people... guess what? Its takes more strength to get back up after its done. life is hard. Give grace