You must take care of yourself, or you are no good to anyone else. Don't ignore how you feel in hopes things will improve or it will go away. You feel that way for a reason, and if you can do the work to figure out why, you will be so much better for
The first murder was committed with a rock. Shall we ban all rocks? After all, there are a lot more rocks in the world than guns. Let's deal with the real problem: evil in the hearts of men.